Is he leading me on ?

he's probably not playing you but it seems lyk he's using you as a crutch to fall back on ... That fact that he's moving from city to city job to job shows that ull always be his second options if things don't work out right but yeah I guess you could actually say he's playing you he's making sure he keeps you n the loop just incase life doesn't plan out right he has you even if he doesn't have to commit he know that if he wanted you he could have you even without sayn I love you or even committing to you .... He'll always have you