I am so pale and my family is so tan what should I do?

well I am as pale as a ghost and if I start to try and tan I turn bright red. I get the paleness from my mom and my dad is 20% italian and my sister got the natral tan and we always go on vacation with my dads family we are going to the beach (we have done this like 10 times) and while they are putting on spf tanning oil I am lathering on spf 85 on my face and I still get burned everyone in my family makes gun of me and I know they mean it to be funny but it does get to me and I am so tierd of my cuz calling me casper the friendly ghost. What should I do